Family leadership principles II



Introduction: In the family, offence is very common as we tend to have high expectations for each other. When our anticipations are laid down, we feel hurt. This breeds a lot of discontent and bruises our egos. The end result is strife; and in extreme situations, separation and divorce. The way we handle problems with potentials to provoke soreness in relationships in the family can determine either we enjoy or endure our relationships in the family. This calls for appropriate display of leadership in the family, according to principles that have worked for our fathers in the faith.
Discussions
1                    How common are conflicts in the home: Gen 13:7, 21:9-11, 27:41, 37:8
2                    Suggest approaches to resolve conflicts: Luke 2:49-51, Gen 50:17-20, Gen 13:9
3                    Proactive style of Abraham: Gen 13:8,9; 21:12, 25:6-10
4                    Preventative approach: 1Tim 5:8, Gen 24:4, James 5:16
Summary: In our present society when quick fixes are the norms, we need to be cautious with the manner we engage in solving our family disputes. Immediate solutions may provide us a sense of vindication and self-aggrandisement. However, the way of the Lord demands that we all should win at the end. The race, remember, is not to the swift, but to who the Lord shows mercy. A better way is to be proactive and engage in activities that prevent conflicts from arising.

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